Marcusx70 wrote:that not everyone deserves a trophy. Sometimes you gotta suck and know that you suck to work on getting better.
You are exactly right!!!! And once that is understood you may find the motivation to work and be better than your last time out. You do that over and over again and you get the trophy but better yet, you get that feeling of self accomplishment that only comes from hard work, before the win. Of course you can choose to go to your "safe zone", whine and cry, and always be a wimp that can not do or accomplish anything on your own.